This thanksgiving I went upstate for the holiday. I think that we did both. early in the morning we watch the parade together as a family talked and laughed. Then we sat in the kicten and talked about chirstmas and we talked about what is going on in the new. Then We danced around before eating and a little after eating. We listen to a little bit of old school music. We also watched the football game and then watched the chris rock stand-up comedy. And after watching it we started talking about avatar and the point of the movie. And before leaving we made fun of how a lot of black and spanish people "act".
And with my grandmother just finish having surgery on her knee we try to help her with things so that she does hurt her self. But me being the"badone" in the family i think that after 5 month she should be doing alittle bit more then what she is doing. So I help her with somethings but I think that she needs to get stong again so she needs to do somethings. And with my aunt in California not feeling with my mom thinks that something is wrong with her but we just call to see if she is ok but don't talk to much until she is ready to talk about it.
I think that when it comes to me I don't talk about people illness but after a while I start to talk about it and stuff I feel that is the only way to make yourself better is if you deal with. And maybe it is nit the best way to handle it but I think it is and people never want to talk about how they want people to treat them so I go off what I would want and what I would fell comfortable with.
i think the point you make about wanting your grandmother to get stronger is a good one becuase she needs to become healthy again. i think you should try to be more open with people about death and illness becuase it probably will help you in an emotional/mental way.
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